Am I Too Needy In A Relationship Quiz

When in a relationship, you’ll be walking a particularly tricky tight-rope, till the two of you hit strike a good balance between needy and independent. For many of you, finding that middle ground and balancing your individual desires with the time you undoubtedly wish to spend with your paramour would be easy – or so you think.

Regrettably, when you’re so close to a situation, it becomes difficult to see the truth of the larger picture, especially so for needy women. That is, until your partner gets fed up with the neediness and walks away for good.

So, if you’ve ever wondered “Am I too needy?”, this is the perfect quiz to help you find out.

How Many Times a Day Do The Two Of You Talk?

Whenever we have something worthwhile to talk about. It could be once a day, or once every other day.

We chat whenever we can. I can’t stand not talking to him! Four times or more, whenever it’s possible.

We make it a point to talk at least once a day, just to share how our days went with each other.

Two to three times a day at least, even if there’s nothing particularly important to talk about.

Who Calls Whom More Often?

He calls me every time.

I call him every time.

He calls me whenever he misses me, or I ask him to. So, 60% of the time he calls.

I call him whenever I miss him, or he asks me to. So, 60% of the time I call.

How Do You React If He Says He’s Busy When You Call?

I get extremely upset and throw a fit right away! After all, we’re in a relationship! I should be his first priority!

I’m sure he has his reasons, and that he’ll call me to fill me in as soon as he can.

I’m not going to create a ruckus right away, but I can’t be treated this way. I’ll wait for his ‘issue’ to get resolved and then sulk or throw a tantrum at him, just to make sure he knows I’m upset with him.

I know he must have his reasons, but I still wish he’d taken a few minutes to ask me what I wanted to talk to him about. Even if I understand, I can’t help but feel a bit taken for granted.

How Often Do The Two Of You Meet Up With His Friends – On Your Request?

Often. I enjoy spending time with him and his friends, and I like how he seems happier when I take the initiative for us to meet up with them.

Never. I hate sharing him with his friends. Plus, they’ve known him for longer than I have and I don’t like how uncertain I feel with them. Besides, they know all his exes.

Sometimes. We mix the time we spend in each other’s company by dividing it between his group of friends, my group of friends, and the two of us alone.

Whenever something important is about to come up for someone in his circle. Even if I don’t like sharing him with anyone else, I don’t want him to miss out on the big moments with his friends.

If you’re upset, and he has a Meeting / Exam / Deadline, what do you do?

He needs to drop whatever else he has going on and pay attention to me. We’re in a relationship, and if I can’t count on him to set aside some work thing, what can I count on him for? If he doesn’t, I’m going to be upset with him for a while.

I’ll contact him and ask if he can spare a few minutes. I understand he’s busy, and he has other commitments. I’ll be happy if he can just devote a few minutes to me, so I know he cares enough to make time in my hour of need.

If he’s busy with something at the moment, I won’t bother him with it. I’ll call up someone else and talk to them, and just fill him in once he’s free.

I’ll text him the situation, and tell him I just wanted to share it with him but not take up his time since I know he’s busy. Even if we can’t talk, I know he’ll think of me and get back to me when he can.

How Do You Deal With Him Having Female Friends?

What female friends? Did you see him talking to another girl? What’s her name? What does she look like?

I make sure he understands that I feel a little jealous sometimes. But, I trust him completely, and he reinforces that trust by always sharing everything he and his female friends do or talk about with me.

I’m cool with it. After all, I have a lot of male friends too. Either way, even if he flirts with them or I flirt with my male friends (which is the most we do since we’re so totally committed), it’s harmless anyway.

I trust him. Unless he ever gives me a reason not to, I have no problem with him having female friends. In fact, I’m quite close with them as well.

When Did You First Say You Loved Him?

As soon as we started dating! How could I not? He’s so totally awesome, and I want him to be mine forever!

I said it only after he said it, and that’s mainly because I didn’t want him to feel bad or awkward.

After a couple of months of dating, when we both felt we could sense a deepening in our relationship, we said it to each other. It was the right time, and we both felt it.

A couple of weeks into our relationship, I was feeling quite upset or sad about something. I wanted to know he cared, and I really needed some affection from him, so I said it. Thank the stars he said it back.

How Many Times A Day Do You Say You Love Him?

I’m rarely the first person to say it. I reply with an ‘I love you too’ when he says it.

I say it as often as I feel it. It depends on the day. But we make it a point to tell each other how we feel at least once a day.

I say it 5 to 10 times a day. Sometimes he replies back, and other times he doesn’t. It really upsets me when he doesn’t say it back though.

I say it 2 to 4 times a day. Not because I feel it every time, but because I like hearing it back from him. It makes me feel like I’m still important to him and that he cares about me.

When The Two of You Go Out, How Often Are You Two Touchy?

All. The. Time. I’m wrapped around him like an octopus whenever we go out. He’s my man, and I need everyone to know it.

Quite often. Even more so if we’re around other attractive women, or I see other women checking him out.

Almost never. We don’t need to prove anything to the world. Besides, it’s anti-social and disgustingly attention-seeking behavior.

Whenever we feel it. If we want to hug, or hold hands, or whatever we feel like. It’s about us, and not about showing something to the world.

How Often Do You Play The ‘Does She Look Better Than Me’ Game?

As much as I hate to admit it, quite often. Almost every time I see another woman who makes me feel bad about myself, I ask him to test him. If he ever says that someone else is more attractive, I’ll claw his eyes out as well as hers. Or at least that’s what I feel like on the inside.

Never. I don’t care about petty stuff like that.

Very rarely. And even then as a joke, while I’m grinning away and elbowing him in the ribs.

Sometimes, when I’m feeling insecure about the way I look or about how much better looking he is than me. It’s just nice to hear him compliment me and to be the center of his attention.

How do you react when he needs to spend time away from you with family or friends for a few days, for whatever obligation that you can’t participate in?

I leave him alone. I’m sure he’ll get back to me when he’s done fulfilling his obligations. Till then, I’m going to take this opportunity and fully enjoy some ‘me’ time.

I text and call him as often as I can. He’d better reply as often as he can, or I’m going to get really upset with him. Just because I can’t participate doesn’t mean that he can treat me as a secondary priority.

I text him whenever I miss him or am thinking of him, and hope that he does too. When we talk, I’m sad whenever he needs to get off the phone and go back to his friends/family.

I text him a few times a day when I’m thinking of him and make sure that he knows that I hope he’s having a great time and that he’s in my thoughts, and he does the same for me too.

Have you ever not replied to his texts or calls, just to teach him a lesson, get his attention, or see his concern?

Never! Why would I waste my time on something stupid like this? Women who do that should get some help and stop being needy.

No, I wouldn’t want him to be upset or worried over nothing.

Yes, I have. And it felt so good when I saw how worried he was and to be this highly valued that he was concerned because of my lack of response.

I’ve thought about it, and it seems appealing sometimes. But, I’ve never actually done it.

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Am I Too Needy In A Relationship Quiz