The Ultimate Relationship Compatibility Test: Are We Compatible?

When choosing which restaurant to go to, how do you make the decision?

When I want to try out a new restaurant, my partner willingly says yes and vice versa.

We usually argue over which restaurant to go to and end up going to the nearest one when we’re already extremely hungry.

We buy take out separately from each of our favorite restaurants and eat dinner at home so we won’t have to eat anything we don’t like.

Are your ideas of a fun weekend the same?

Yes, we both like to unwind at a cozy bar at the end of a workday.

Sometimes – I love going out to a club with my friends while my partner and his friends also come along.

Not really – he usually does his own thing of watching sports with his friends while I go to the mall with my own group of friends.

Do both of you love cooking?

Yes, we both do!

I love to eat while he takes charge of the kitchen.

No! We just eat out.

When you’re having a bad day and you take it out on your partner, what does he do?

He usually asks me what’s wrong and when I still bark at him, he just stays out of my way.

He stays quiet and waits for me to calm down.

He avoids me.

When at a party, what do both of you usually do?

I usually head to my groups of friends while he chats up with the boys, but we always end up spending the night side by side.

If it’s his friends’ party, he drags me along while I socialize with his friends, and vice versa.

We only go to parties when it’s highly important – like a wedding or an anniversary party.

When you watch TV, who gets to control the remote?

When my favorite show is on, I control the remote and vice versa. If none of our favorite shows are on, the TV channel is always tuned in to the news.

Me – he always lets me enjoy my TV shows, even if it means cringing all throughout Real Housewives of whatever city.

Both of us do – we look for a show that both of us enjoy watching.

When your partner gives you the silent treatment, what do you do?

I just give him time to cool off and when I feel he’s ready to talk, I gently ask him what’s wrong.

I ask him what I did wrong for about 2 -3 times and if he doesn’t answer, I just wait for him to talk to me.

I give him the silent treatment, too – that way he’ll know how he’s making me feel.

What are your ideal places to settle down?

Right here where we are – in a place where we can grow our careers but also in close proximity to my hometown so we can easily visit old friends and family.

In a metropolitan city where we get to make our dreams come true.

We haven’t really talked about it.

When you’re shopping for clothes, do you consider your partner’s opinions?

Yes and no. If I like something and my partner says he doesn’t like it because my side-boob is showing, then yes. But if I want something really bad and my partner doesn’t like it for some silly reason like the top is too trendy, then no. It all depends on his reason for not liking the outfit and my desire for to buy it.

If my partner doesn’t like it and he insists I don’t buy it, I might consider buying it later when he’s not around. I might also keep it in the closet and wear it on days when I don’t see him.

I don’t care – I’ll buy whatever I want.

Is there anything you would like to change about your partner?

Yes, of course! I love him and all but it would be really nice if he always arrived on time every time he picks me up or when we meet for dinner.

I can’t think of anything for now – I love him exactly as he is.

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The Ultimate Relationship Compatibility Test: Are We Compatible?